IT IS OVER RATED
Yesterday, without much fuss. I agreed to let my husband attend a Bachelor Party out of town. The party, was held about two hours away, at Lake Texoma Oklahoma. My husband's good friend, owns a lake house there. The three of them, have been freinds, for many years. A few others, were suppose to come down, for the party as well. The plans were that, they would watch Football, eat steaks, and play Poker. Whereas, "The Bachelor" has been married before. Therefore, Strip Bars, were not an issue this time. Some much so that, he has been married three times before.
I suppose that, when you're in your early 40's, it's not that big of a deal as well. However, I've digressed from, the real issue here. Not only, did I not fuss about him going, I'm also without kids this weekend. Which means that, I'll be completely alone. Not at all a bad deal. It's just that, I purposly stayed in last night. This is so that, I wouldn't get into trouble. Things like, drunk driving trouble. Not to mention that, I wouldn't have my husband, to fend off men at a bar. So, three of our friends came over, to have some drinks and watch a movie. I thought that, this was very mature of me.
However, I should have just went out, and acted like a fool. It seems as though, my husband is having trouble answering his phone. Last night, his cell phone was, inside the house while they were playing cards. It honestly upset me. I was just wondering how he was, and what they were up to. Although much later, he did call me back. It didn't help though, I was already disgusted. They same thing happened this morning. Thankfully, he called me, just a few minutes ago. He apologized for not answering his cell hone. After nearly severs years of marriage. You would think that, I'm over trying to keep a leash on him.
However, it seems as though I'm not. The problem being, he is always home, and being a good boy. Our freind put it this way last night. It's very unnerving to know that, your husband is out with his friends. Her husband, couldn't understand why I was upset. I ask her, "do you want to take this one for me?" This is when, she explained this to her new husband, of only 11 months. Just as she put it, "you will never understand." Never-the-less, if my husband does as plans. He should be home about 3:00 P.M. this afternoon. Otherwise, I'll still be upset with him. Again, like I said last night, "Bachelor partys are over rated." I'm still crazy ya'll!
I suppose that, when you're in your early 40's, it's not that big of a deal as well. However, I've digressed from, the real issue here. Not only, did I not fuss about him going, I'm also without kids this weekend. Which means that, I'll be completely alone. Not at all a bad deal. It's just that, I purposly stayed in last night. This is so that, I wouldn't get into trouble. Things like, drunk driving trouble. Not to mention that, I wouldn't have my husband, to fend off men at a bar. So, three of our friends came over, to have some drinks and watch a movie. I thought that, this was very mature of me.
However, I should have just went out, and acted like a fool. It seems as though, my husband is having trouble answering his phone. Last night, his cell phone was, inside the house while they were playing cards. It honestly upset me. I was just wondering how he was, and what they were up to. Although much later, he did call me back. It didn't help though, I was already disgusted. They same thing happened this morning. Thankfully, he called me, just a few minutes ago. He apologized for not answering his cell hone. After nearly severs years of marriage. You would think that, I'm over trying to keep a leash on him.
However, it seems as though I'm not. The problem being, he is always home, and being a good boy. Our freind put it this way last night. It's very unnerving to know that, your husband is out with his friends. Her husband, couldn't understand why I was upset. I ask her, "do you want to take this one for me?" This is when, she explained this to her new husband, of only 11 months. Just as she put it, "you will never understand." Never-the-less, if my husband does as plans. He should be home about 3:00 P.M. this afternoon. Otherwise, I'll still be upset with him. Again, like I said last night, "Bachelor partys are over rated." I'm still crazy ya'll!
posted by Beth Schofield | 8:24 AM
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