THE SILENCE WAS DEAFENING
Yesterday evening, both my former husband and my son, return from Wednesday night dinner. It's nothing that I agreed upon. It's just some extra crap that, the wonderful state I live in, came up with. Just something else to worry about. Just another reason, to get under my skin. If we could only do away with this weekly event, I'd be really happy. Yet, I digress. Anyway, my son walks in, and says "dad wants to tell you about this weekwnd." He says that, "it's his Holiday." My husband, was playing Play Station 2 right next to me. When he quickly get's up.
He goes outside, annoyed of course. This is in regards to my former husbands behavior last Sunday. He then says, "we can play games all you want." "If you want to keep this shit up, we can do it up right." My husband knew that, I was just mad because, my son just got back from their house last weekend. So now, it turns out to be his Holiday agin. Yet another weekend away from our home.
My husband and his former wife, pretty much don't pay attention to the silly Holidays anymore. The only two that any of us are worried about are, Thanksgiving and Christmas. If a silly holiday happens to fall on our weekend with the kids, she doesn't care. We all just leave it at that. That way, not to disrupte the schedule. My husband, was trying to get this across to my Ex. Maybe this was happen with him as well.
Here's the long story short. They both discussed all of our recent problems. Including my former husbands nasty attitude last Sunday. There were a range of topics it seemed. From Dental and Vision insurance to the Trumpet that was purchased. I told him that, I had actually paid 1/2 of all og the dental bills this summer, not the usual 60/40. I'll never help out, in that manner again. I'm tired of being the nice girl.
So there on the porch swing I sat. I didn't say much. I was just completely annoyed that, they were agreeing on alot of things. I know that, this is the adult way to handle things. However, I was in no mood. I wanted to see my husband take my side. Furthermore, I wanted to see some name calling and ass kicking. Wow, that didn't happen. How boaring is that. So my husband says this morning, "you didn't say anything about the conversation to your Ex, after he left. " I said, "what's to talk about, you just took his side on everything anyway?"
We ended up talking it over a little as adult, over coffee this morning. I'm still not amused, with either one of them. All is for the best I guess. See ya'll!
He goes outside, annoyed of course. This is in regards to my former husbands behavior last Sunday. He then says, "we can play games all you want." "If you want to keep this shit up, we can do it up right." My husband knew that, I was just mad because, my son just got back from their house last weekend. So now, it turns out to be his Holiday agin. Yet another weekend away from our home.
My husband and his former wife, pretty much don't pay attention to the silly Holidays anymore. The only two that any of us are worried about are, Thanksgiving and Christmas. If a silly holiday happens to fall on our weekend with the kids, she doesn't care. We all just leave it at that. That way, not to disrupte the schedule. My husband, was trying to get this across to my Ex. Maybe this was happen with him as well.
Here's the long story short. They both discussed all of our recent problems. Including my former husbands nasty attitude last Sunday. There were a range of topics it seemed. From Dental and Vision insurance to the Trumpet that was purchased. I told him that, I had actually paid 1/2 of all og the dental bills this summer, not the usual 60/40. I'll never help out, in that manner again. I'm tired of being the nice girl.
So there on the porch swing I sat. I didn't say much. I was just completely annoyed that, they were agreeing on alot of things. I know that, this is the adult way to handle things. However, I was in no mood. I wanted to see my husband take my side. Furthermore, I wanted to see some name calling and ass kicking. Wow, that didn't happen. How boaring is that. So my husband says this morning, "you didn't say anything about the conversation to your Ex, after he left. " I said, "what's to talk about, you just took his side on everything anyway?"
We ended up talking it over a little as adult, over coffee this morning. I'm still not amused, with either one of them. All is for the best I guess. See ya'll!
posted by Beth Schofield | 6:11 AM
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