VISITATION VIOLATION
My former husband, and my son's father, has done his damnest to consistently irriate me. He and his wife, my son's step-mother are still repeatedly leaving my son with friends. It is becoming very appearent that, she does not have time to take care of my son properly; while they have him for visitation. My former mother-in-law says that, they are both so busy with work, school, and his half sister. This is why when, an opportunity presents itself, they take full advantage of it. Meaning, when they have an opportunity to "leave my son" somewhere else, they do it.
Evidentally, his step-mother's mother, had another knee replacement this past week. A lot of time has been spent at the hospital during her recovery. Appearently, his step-mother's friend Stephanie just volenteerd to take my son, his half sister, and step-cousin while both of them were at the hospital. My son said that, they had a great time both eating and playing games at the pizza planet. I don't doubt that at all. However, once again, my son did not know her last name nor address.
To make a long story short, my husband and I spoke to our son quite frankly on, the possibilitys of what can happen when you are in the company of strangers. This goes far beyond, the somewhat innocent "Stranger Danger" that we have always taught our three sons. I talked to our son about just what could happen to him. We made him aware of several things. Number one, you could be raped or molested. I didn't spare any detail in describing what it might be like being raped by both men and women. We explained to him that both men and women rape children.
My husband told him that, before he met me he dated several women. He stated that, nine out of ten women that he dated, had been raped. We told him that, my husband's former wife had been raped by two men. This actually happen to her while she was in the army. She even ended up having an abortion. Yes, I told him about that too. Our second point was that he could be kidnapped, and taken far away. I told him of, the millions of children that are, kidnapped and then sold to someone in a foreign counrty; to work in prostitution for the rest of his life. Ya'll pray.
My former husband, and my son's father, has done his damnest to consistently irriate me. He and his wife, my son's step-mother are still repeatedly leaving my son with friends. It is becoming very appearent that, she does not have time to take care of my son properly; while they have him for visitation. My former mother-in-law says that, they are both so busy with work, school, and his half sister. This is why when, an opportunity presents itself, they take full advantage of it. Meaning, when they have an opportunity to "leave my son" somewhere else, they do it.
Evidentally, his step-mother's mother, had another knee replacement this past week. A lot of time has been spent at the hospital during her recovery. Appearently, his step-mother's friend Stephanie just volenteerd to take my son, his half sister, and step-cousin while both of them were at the hospital. My son said that, they had a great time both eating and playing games at the pizza planet. I don't doubt that at all. However, once again, my son did not know her last name nor address.
To make a long story short, my husband and I spoke to our son quite frankly on, the possibilitys of what can happen when you are in the company of strangers. This goes far beyond, the somewhat innocent "Stranger Danger" that we have always taught our three sons. I talked to our son about just what could happen to him. We made him aware of several things. Number one, you could be raped or molested. I didn't spare any detail in describing what it might be like being raped by both men and women. We explained to him that both men and women rape children.
My husband told him that, before he met me he dated several women. He stated that, nine out of ten women that he dated, had been raped. We told him that, my husband's former wife had been raped by two men. This actually happen to her while she was in the army. She even ended up having an abortion. Yes, I told him about that too. Our second point was that he could be kidnapped, and taken far away. I told him of, the millions of children that are, kidnapped and then sold to someone in a foreign counrty; to work in prostitution for the rest of his life. Ya'll pray.
posted by Beth Schofield | 7:06 AM
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