RESTING IN PEACE

In reading some of my previous posts; you may be familar with all of the genealogy research that I have been doing. All of which, is in regards to my Mother-In-Law. I still call her my Mother-In-Law, even though we never met. I realize that, I should be calling my Husband's Step-Mother, my Mother-In-Law. However, after our astrangement, I can nolonger do that. I also understand that, she did raise both he and his sister, and their half sister. It still makes no sense to me to do so. My reason being, I feel that she did so, out of a sense of obligation.

Again, that is all "water beneath the bridge." It's amazing how, the emotional scares that you're parents give you, never seem to heal. I also find it amazing how, some of us who had rough beginnings, are still here and entacted emotionally. I've said that, we all should be far worse off then we are. However, we've somehow overcame the odds. I'm not speaking of myself so much. I was just simply put up for adoption at birth, and given a better life.

Never-the-less, while watching TV in bed last night, I asked my Husband a question. I said, do you think that, you Mom is at rest? At first, he said, "no." The reason he gave was, because of how tragicly she died. Then, changed his answer to, "yes... probably" and that, "she's probably over it, and may be reincarnated or something by now." I thought, if anyone could sense that either way, it would be him.

I was guessing that, the Mother/Child bond is forever. Also that, this is something that the test of time can never erase. He has also said before that, "she's my guardian angel." I suppose that I believe him. Tell ya'll's Mom that you love them today!